My name is Mabel, based in Abuja with my husband. I have been married to my husband for three years without any problem. But now his attitude and affection for me has changed totally.
Before we got married, I used to be light skinned. That was my God given complexion. My husband and I first met at a shopping mall. When we started dating, he told me he loves very fair ladies. When I asked him why he was trying to date me despite the fact am not that fair, he said it’s because of my character.
He said he loves the way I conduct my self, my mannerism and knack for business. I was flattered of cause but wanted to be sure he was okay with a woman of my skin color. He assured me he loves me despite my color, saying it didn’t matter to him anymore.
Despite the fact that he had always dreamed of getting married to a fair lady since he started becoming conscious of women, he said he wanted to marry me. I accepted but still had my doubts because of the way he eyes fair ladies whenever one passes by.
After our marriage, i was no longer comfortable with my complexion. Not that personally I wanted to become fairer, but my husband wanted that. He didn’t ask me to bleach, but the way he stared at fair ladies made me decide to do something about it.
That was how I started bleaching, using lightening lotions and soaps. It went well at first. I became very fair and my husband loved it. But things took a wrong turn. I started developing body odor. Now the odor is seriously getting out of hand. My husband doesn’t share a room anymore with me talk more of taking me to bed. He said he won’t touch me again till I get rid of the odor.
Please it’s urgent and I need help. Your suggestions will be highly appreciated, thanks.
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