A guy is in serious trauma and emotionally down. He has been jolted after investing so much, financially, time, and even taking risk for a his woman. He picked this girl up when she was absolutely nothing, even living a life of no hope and saw her through school and setting up a business for her, only for his woman to shatter and break his heart.
The question now is Who do we blame?
Please he needs advice because he is reading this post right now. Please you guys should be polite and no insult, because already he is in trauma.
In my own opinion, I believe whatever you do in a relationship should not be an avenue to make a woman marry you in return.if at all you want to send a woman to school, set up business for her, or help her in one way or the other, do not do because you want her to marry you.
Whatever you do, make sure you do it out of compassion and the the promise of marriage. Marriage should never be an appreciation but a way of expressing gratitude, and never do what you cannot write off in a relationship. This has been a lesson men fail to learn every time. No woman owes you marriage because you invested in her in any way. Do it without any interest in mind.
Then at some point, some women are also deceitful, they will agree to marriage terms for the man to invest in them, only for them to run the man dry, and jolt him at last.
And it’s important, when a man start buying you heaven and earth, ask for his intentions and be clarify. Let him know that you are not obliged to marry him because of the investment in you.
At this point, the man request if he should approach the lady to refund his money? Please put your contribution because he is reading this. Thanks
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