1. OPEN YOUR EARS
Girls like a man that’s going to listen to their problems and when you open your ears and let them talk, you are one step up on any other guy in pursuit. Make sure you don’t push her to make a decision. She just wants you to listen so she can work it out.
Of course if she asks for your advice, you should give it. Just make sure you aren’t pushing too hard with it or she’ll close the door fast.
2. GIVE HER COMPLIMENTS
Who doesn’t like a nice compliment now and then? Just please don’t give her fake praise or she will kick your butt to the curb fast. Make sure the compliment is genuine and sincere and not too deep.
If you overdo it, I can guarantee this pointer will backfire big time.
Flatter her a little and she will reward you handsomely.
3. SUPPORT HER ROYALLY
Think of this like you might a cheerleader. You need to show her you will be there to encourage her on and support her in her daily battles. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything she does and says, that would make you a pushover puppet.
However, you should show her you appreciate and respect her for her life choices. That’s just plain magical in the dating game.
4. DON’T BE AFRAID TO PLAY THE CHIVALRY CARD
This is where you are going to capture her attention and rock her world. Too many guys today seem to forget their manners. When you treat a lady properly, it will never ever go out of style.
Open the door for her. Pull out her chair. Give her your coat on a chilly evening.
When you show her she’s worth being treated specially, you will be squeezing your way into her heart for all the right reasons. Give it a shot! You’ve got nothing to lose.
5. GIVE HER ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION
I know this one isn’t so easy considering the technology we’ve got to our fingertips. If you are serious about showing this girl you deserve to have her fall in love with you, then you need to keep all eyes on her.
This means putting your phone away and definitely not watching other girls walk into the room.
You will come across as a prick if you can’t give her your full attention. The choice is yours.
6. TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH HER
This can come in all sorts of different shapes and forms. You can tell her face to face that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Another route is to drop her a text or email to make sure she knows that she’s on your mind.
Or you can drop her a line on social media. You just want to make it crystal clear that you like being with her. She needs to know that if you are going to be successful making her fall in love with you.
7. NURTURE THE LOVE
You need to stand out and in order to do this, you’ve got to take care of the little things. Give her flowers or some sort of surprise just because. Don’t wait until a special occasion to show her how you feel.
This will help to make her feel loved and appreciated and that’s a direct route to making her fall in love with you. End of story.
8. MR. CLEAN IS A GOOD THING
Truth be told, if you are leaving your dirty socks on the floor and the sink filled with your dishes, you are killing the romance.
Girls like it clean and that means you need to make every effort to clean up after yourself and not leave it to her, no matter what she says.
You should know by now that girls say one thing and mean another more often than not.
Like it or lump it because that’s just the way it is.
9. MUSIC MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER
There’s just something about a man that sings. Girls go crazy over it. Guess there’s just something about a bad boy rock star. This doesn’t mean you have to be a rocker to get a girl. But if you’ve got some singing skills in your back pocket, that’s a good thing.
If not, just show her you are passionate in some other genre. Passion is perfect when combined with love.
10. FUNNY IS IN
When you show a girl you can be light hearted and funny, you are one step closer to getting her walls down so you can jump in.
Laughter is the best medicine and when you show a girl you can be funny, or at least try, you will get into her heart and mind fast.
So let loose and get a little silly if you are serious about getting the girl for keeps.
