In recent times research has shown it that there are so many failed marriages and broken home due to the fact that some measures are not considered before going into the desired relationship. Mistakes men make before going into marriage which has to be abolished in other to bring them an happy home.
#1:POOR INCOME
A man who has a low income should not deem it fit to go into marriage yet if he truly wants the best for himself and the wife, cause marriage requires so many responsibility which has to be carried out with money and to make the marriage sweet. As a man it is equally adviceable for you to get a job with a better pay before going into marriage. Even the scripture condemn any man who can’t provide for his family to be worst than an infidel. I consider this as a major mistake to check out for before going into marriage.
#2:CHEATING
No woman wants her husband to cheat on her and if your the type who loves to flirt around women u had better stop before going into marriage, I wonder why she wouldn’t have even find out during your courtship but u know many men really knows how to keep things, but do you realize courtship is only for a short period of time while marriage is a life time there is possibility she catches you in the act so u had better stop it not to bring you a failed marriage.
#3:INTOLERANT
As a man before going into marriage with any woman you have to learn this to be tolerative cause your wife feels more secured with you, knowing the fact that both of you are coming from a different backgrounds, having different ideologies, you should always welcome her idea in any situation cause women tends to feel loved when they realize they have a significant role to play in their man’s life.
#4:POOR ATTITUDE TOWARDS GIVING
Many men out there find it so hard to give out things to their spouse, but do u know that the true measure to love is giving, how much can you release things to your spouse has to be a major concern to you as a man. As a man you have to start cultivating the habit of giving so has to have a peaceful home and you know ladies love it when their man showers them with surprises.
#5:LAZINESS
No woman would tolerate a lazy man as an husband, cause when you ought to work and provide for the family your their sleeping and your planning on having a better marriage with this act, I don’t think that would be possible. Laziness has brought so many marriages to early destruction so you have to work on yourself if you know your lazy.
